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Fight for Your Right to Choose Life-Sustaining Treatments!

Tuesday, August 24th, 2010

Long-term health care planning is a dodgy process in that you must stand firm about how you expect to be cared for in the event of your incapacitation or inability to make critical medical decisions. This process helps people think about the kind of care they wish to receive should you need a spouse, loved one or friend to make these life and death decisions for you. In California, a Power of Attorney for Health Care, also referred to as PACH, is the legal document that allows patients to choose who will speak for them should they become unable to speak for themselves.

Sadly, a health care provider who confronts an emergency situation may lack the time and opportunity to communicate with a terminally ill patient’s chosen representative. For this reason, California law permits treating physicians to confer with their patients to define acceptable types of life-sustaining treatment should a medical decision involving issues of life support arise.

The Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment, or POLST, converts the patient’s wishes regarding life support into a formal medical order. To make sure that the order has full force and effect the POLST must:

  • Be completed by a health care provider based on the patient’s preferences and medical indications
  • Be signed by the treating physician and either the patient or the patient’s legally recognized health care decision maker
  • Be prepared on a brightly colored pink form that is easily recognized by emergency care providers and hospital staff
  • Be filed on the first page of the patient’s medical file and transferred with that file to all future health care providers.

Doctors are required by law to honor the preferences of those patients who have chosen to use this legal document as a guideline that defines appropriate future care. However, the POLST may be changed or even revoked by the physician, patient, or patient’s health care decision maker at any time should the circumstances warrant it.

Do you feel prepared for this type of emergency medical decision-making? If not, contact a qualified Elder Law attorney who can walk you through the process of preparing for this type of situation and avoiding medical mistakes that may  mean the difference between life and death.

Conservatorship Basics

Tuesday, August 10th, 2010

If your spouse of other loved one becomes incapacitated without having a proper power of attorney prepared for health care (PAHC) or a durable power of attorney for financial matters (DPAFM), a conservatorship may be needed. In a conservatorship, the court appoints a conservator to take charge of the incapacitated person’s (the conservatee) personal needs, financial matters or both.

In a conservatorship, the court determines that the conservatee does not have the sufficient capacity to care for their own personal needs or make decisions. In a conservatorship of the estate, the court determines that the conservatee does not have the legal capacity to enter into transactions involving financial matters.

How to Establish a Conservatorship

To create a new conservatorship, you need a court proceeding to determine whether the person in question is indeed considered incapacitated according to the law. The judge tries to put the best interests of the conservatee first so he/she will carefully consider the best person to be put in this position in this order:

  • First choice is always the spouse, domestic partner, or other nominee
  • Second- an adult child or the child’s nominee
  • Third- a sibling or sibling’s nominee
  • Last- any other eligible person or entity (appointed attorney would work here)

The Conservator’s Responsibilities

The conservator’s primary role is to ensure that the conservatee’s needs are met. The duties include: making decisions about their living arrangements and daily care like planning for the conservatee’s meals, clothing and health care.

A conservator of the estate handles the financial matters which include:

  • Filing an Inventory and Appraisal document with the court; this document lists all the assets owned by the conservatee and the value of each on the date the conservator was appointed.
  • Paying the conservatee’s bills and expenses
  • Making appropriate investments on their behalf
  • Applying for entitlement benefits
  • Keeping financial records and filing periodic accountings with the court

All conservators are required to have a copy of the Judicial Counsel of California’s Handbook for Conservator that can be viewed online at courtinfo.ca.gov/selfhelp, under the “Seniors” heading.

Unlike an Agent under a PAHC or DPAFM, a conservator must submit to the court:

  • Formal written documents informing the court of address changes for all relevant persons.
  • Regular accountings that explain how the conservatee’s finances were handled.
  • Intentions to sell, abandon or give away any of the conservatee’s personal or real property.
  • Any other matters that the court orders the conservator to report on.

Unlike a PAHC or DPAFM Agent, the conservator may not resign without first obtaining the court’s permission. If you are in this situation or would like to plan ahead in case the instance of incapacitation happens to your family, contact one of our attorneys today for a free consultation. Being prepared is the best way to avoid this confusing situation.

What Does Medi-Cal Cover Anyway?

Wednesday, August 4th, 2010

California’s medical assistance program, otherwise known as Medi-Cal, pays for “medically necessary” health care such as:

  • Physician visits
  • X-ray and laboratory tests
  • Hospital and nursing-home care
  • Adult day health services
  • Home health care
  • Certain prescription drugs excluded as a Medicare Part D benefit
  • Prosthetic and orthopedic devices*
  • Hearing aids*
  • Medical equipment
  • Ambulance services
  • Hospice care

But there are several caveats to this coverage. First, Medi-Cal will only cover these costs and services if you use previously accepted Medi-Cal providers. And, if you qualify for full Medi-Cal benefits or have Medi-Cal with a share of cost (SOC) under $500, Medi-Cal will also cover your Medicare Part A and B deductibles and copayments, and pay your monthly Medicare Part B premium ($110.50 in 2010).

Share of cost (SOC)- “Share of cost is a term that refers to the amount of health care expenses a recipient must accumulate each month before Medi-Cal begins to offer assistance. Once a recipient’s health care expenses reach a predetermined amount, Medi-Cal will pay for any additional covered expenses for that month. Share of cost is an amount that is owed to the provider of health care services, not to the state.”

You can use Medi-Cal with either:

  • Original Medicare
  • Medicare Advantage (MA) plan

If you choose Original Medicare and fee-for-service Medi-Cal, make sure your doctor or hospital accepts Medi-Cal as well as Medicare. You must show both your Medicare card and your Medi-Cal Benefits Identification Card (BIC) to your doctor and other providers before receiving services, so they can bill Medicare and Medi-Cal directly. Medicare and Medi-Cal will make payments directly to the providers. Most dually eligible beneficiaries choose this option.

If you choose a Medicare Advantage (MA) plan and fee-for-service Medi-Cal, present your BIC to the network providers of the MA plan so they can bill Medi-Cal for any cost-sharing (i.e., deductibles, copayments and coinsurance).

For services covered only by Medi-Cal, such as long-term care in a nursing home, Medi-Cal is solely responsible. Medi-Cal may also pay for certain in-home services through In-Home Supportive Services (IHSS) when you need long-term care.

The bottom line is, yes Medi-Cal is confusing, time consuming and sometimes difficult to qualify for. The attorneys at the California Elder Law Center know these regulations inside and out and have decades of experience helping individuals just like you qualify for and receive all the benefits they need. Call 800-500-6700 for a free Medi-Cal benefits consultation with one of our expert attorneys. You can keep your home and other assets while also receiving excellent care.

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Asset Protection during Long Term Care

Tuesday, July 27th, 2010

For the average aging individual or married couple, nursing home costs and the expense of long-term care are a huge shock and can wipe out their entire life savings within just months. In fact, many people are completely not aware that Medi-Cal and private supplement insurance does not cover the cost of long term care. Furthermore, in limited circumstances Medi-Cal will cover 100% of just the first 20 days and then part of the next 80 days. But after 100 days, Medi-Cal won’t cover anything and usually a private supplement policy won’t either. In reality you only get a few weeks of coverage between both. Scary thought right?

Over 40% of people getting close to 65 will need to spend time in a nursing home at some point. And the average monthly cost is steadily rising and is around $6k/month now.

So what are your options when faced with the potential of a long term care crisis?

One. Pay the costs out of private funds. This option is great if you’re independently wealthy or have wealthy family to help you out, if not, this is just not going to work.

Two. Purchase long term health care insurance. Purchasing long term care health insurance is becoming more popular as people realize the debilitating costs of full-service long-term care. So if you can afford it, make sure you use a reputable company and buy at least 5 years of in-home, assisted living and nursing home coverage at a minimum of $150 per day with the cost of living rider.

Three. Apply for and qualify for public benefits including Veterans and Medi-Cal benefits. Medi-Cal will pay for minimal in-home care and assisted living and can also be very complicated and stressful to apply for. Here’s why. There are certain assets that are counted against you when applying for Medi-Cal so having an attorney review your assets and decide how to treat them will help your chances of keeping your hard-earned possessions as well as qualify for the benefits you need now. These items may include your home, car, whole life insurance, household furnishings, cash at hand, bonds, savings, stocks, retirement accounts, etc. Some of these items may need to be transferred to someone else or used up in order to qualify for your benefits.

But the rules have changed! Congress passed legislation that majorly affects Medi-Cal Nursing Home benefits. This new law imposes new restrictions on the ability of the elderly to transfer their assets before qualifying for coverage.

Some of the Provisions Include:

  • The look back period is extended from 3 to 5 years.
  • The value of a house that can be exempt is $500,000.
  • Annuities and many other planning tools will be eliminated.
  • Monthly gifts are severely curtailed.

We strongly encourage adult child caretakers and seniors to readjust your long-term care planning or start planning now. Pre-planning is more critical than ever to maximize the possibility of saving your family’s assets and getting the senior the quality long-term care coverage they will likely need. Contact us today for a free consultation with one of our skilled Elder Law attorneys. Call 562-627-9600

Another Case of Buyer Beware: LegalZoom.com Gets Sued

Tuesday, July 20th, 2010

We’ve blogged about this in the past but with the resurgence of website’s posting free or very cheap legal advice and document preparation we wanted to reiterate the dangers of letting a company that doesn’t know you and hasn’t even consulted with you prepare your will, powers of attorney or other life and death documents. These are the measures that dictate the handling of your care in case of a major medical emergency, how your financial matters will be handled and who your assets will go to. These are not things to take lightly or just let a website’s “quick quiz” handle. We understand that this seems to be the simple, easy and cheap way to handle the preparation of these documents but it’s been proven time and again to be riskier than you might think.

The truth is, creating these documents is often left to the last minute and is rarely considered in advance when you have time to think clearly through the process. Most people don’t even realize they need a will and powers of attorney. Reasons given might include: cost, difficulty in finding time to see an attorney, reluctance to contact an attorney, or difficulty in finding an attorney whom they feel will help them.
The result of this lack of consideration: contacting online services such as LegalZoom.com, or buying programs that allow you to create your own documents. While these may seem fast and easy, this is the perfect “buyer beware” scenario just waiting to backfire on you.

In fact, trying to save money with “do-it-yourself” legal documents can have very expensive consequences. LegalZoom.com, for example, is the target of a class action lawsuit in California, as reported in Elder Law Answers recently.

The article as reported goes like this. “A man with only a few months to live asked his niece to help him execute a will and living trust using LegalZoom. The niece believed the advertising on the website that the documents would be legally binding. Furthermore, it was represented that if there was any trouble with the documents, the customer service department would help resolve them.

In actuality, the financial institutions that held the man’s money refused to transfer any money into the trust because they maintained that the documents were not legally valid. The customer service department apparently provided no assistance. After the man’s death, it cost thousands of dollars to rectify the damage caused by reliance on the LegalZoom documents.” Not exactly the scenario you want to have happen to you, right?

And, you still pay for the preparation of the LegalZoom documents. Furthermore, the fine print on the website states that “LegalZoom is not a law firm, does not act as your attorney and is not a substitute for the advice of an attorney. Rather, it helps you represent yourself…” Wow! So why are they taking on the responsibility of preparing your legal documents? They don’t even have a real attorney on staff!

Basically, any documents developed are based on a short questionnaire, which may not ask the appropriate questions for your circumstances. Furthermore, any documents developed online, or from a purchased program will not be state specific, which can be an issue for power of attorney documents and wills. You, your executor or agents may find the documents inadequate or invalid when it is too late to rectify the damage.

Another area where failing to consult an attorney can have unexpected and expensive results is in the preparation of your living trust or revocable trust. All too often, non-attorneys are marketing these documents, using standard forms that are “customized” for the client. Remember that your situation is different and should be addressed specifically so that your documents reflect your entire set of circumstances, are legally binding and professionally prepared and filed.

Get real, professional legal advice with a free consultation with one of our attorneys.

Call 888-500-6700 or email info@calelderlaw.com

VA Changed the Rules: What you need to know to get your benefits now.

Tuesday, July 13th, 2010

A huge change recently occurred in how things are now being processed by the VA. Now they no longer withhold monies on approved claims that require a Fiduciary be appointed.  In the past, no money was being released until the Fiduciary process was completed.  This left families with approved claims but no access to the much needed monthly income from the pension to help pay for care.  This is singularly one of the best things the VA could have possibly done to truly assist veterans and their families. The Fiduciary process is still in place on those claims where the applicant has been declared incompetent to manage their own affairs.  Due to the limited number of VA Field Agents, these appointments can take months to schedule, but this change in policy will make the wait a little easier to tolerate.

Below are some additional rules you may not know that can help you or your spouse more easily qualify for and/or continue receiving your veteran’s benefits.

The New Legislative Rule

Currently, if you can prove that you medically and financially should have received an award up to 12 months before you filed, the VA may (might, maybe, could) give you the award for the 12  prior months. The letters veterans receive on your benefits eligibility started changing a few months ago, so read all the correspondence relating to your approval application carefully.  You would need a physician’s evaluation that states as of ABC month, the applicant needed XYZ help.  If you do qualify for the additional back payments this is definitely worth exploring!

What happens if you are a veteran with a sick spouse?

This question comes up all the time in our practice. While the veteran has to qualify for a spouse to benefit (unless they are widowed), what many do not realize is that if the medical costs of the spouse depletes their combined monthly income, the veteran is entitled to file as a “veteran with a sick spouse” and would be eligible for $1290 a month.  That extra cash could be just enough to fill the gap and keep you afloat. This is a common gap that many couples do not even know they could qualify for.

Providing Care at Home

Let’s say you are the veteran (or surviving spouse) and you are being cared for in a home by a family member or other non-licensed healthcare individual, you are required to call the primary doctor or nurse and give monthly updates as to how the veteran or widow is doing.  This is really just you checking in but it is a crucial step for deducting the caregiver’s cost.  Again this is if the care is being provided by a non-licensed healthcare individual. Many people are unaware of this requirement, and if you have not done this in the past, you need to start doing this to ensure there are no issues when the yearly EVR (Eligibility Verification Report) comes due. 

Contact our Veterans Benefits Specialist Sean McGuire today to learn more about getting all the VA benefits you are owed. Call (562) 920-6100 to find out more today.

Veterans Benefits

Monday, July 12th, 2010

Contact Sean McGuire @ (562)920-6100

General Qualifications for Non-Service Connected Aid and Attendance

Veteran, Widowed Spouse, and Dependent or Disabled Child (Any May be a Claimant)

  • Veteran Must have Served at Least Ninety Days Active Duty with One Day of the Ninety During a Qualified War Period (Ninety Days Must Generally be Consecutive, with Some Exceptions)
  • Veteran Must have had an “Other Than Dishonorable Discharge”
  • Claimant’s Physician Must Declare Him/Her as Housebound and in Need of Assistance from Another Individual, Which May Include Services Offered by Assisted Living
  • Claimant Should have Less than $80,000.00 in Household Assets; Excluding Primary Home, Car, and Personal Belongings (If Assets are Jointly Owned by Other than Spouse, Only the Claimant’s Share is Generally Countable.  In the Case of a Married Veteran, Both His/Her Assets are Countable.  Although $80k is Typically the Asset Cap, the VA May Also Consider the Claimant’s Life Expectancy and Demand Lower Total Assets.  In the Case of Excessive Assets, It May be Best to Consult an Elder Law Attorney)
  • Claimant’s Household Out-of-Pocket Yearly Medical Expenses Must Exceed or Come Close to His/Her Total Yearly Household Gross Income (Total Yearly Cost of Assisted Living is Typically Considered a Medical Expense)
  • Widowed Spouse Must have been Married to the Veteran for at Least One Year, OR have had Children by the Veteran if Married Less than One Year, AND Never Remarried
  • Widowed Spouse Must have been Living with the Veteran at the Time of the Veteran’s Death, Unless the Separation was Due to Medical or Military Reasons (There May be Some Exceptions Related to Separations Due to Abuse)
  • Minor or Disabled Adult Children May Qualify for Limited Benefits on Their Own

2010 Maximum Pension Rates for Aid and Attendance

Single Veteran                          $1,644.00 Per Month or $19,728.00 Per Year

Married Veteran                       $1,948.00 Per Month or $23,376.00 Per Year

Widowed Spouse                     $1,056.00 Per Month or $12,660.00 Per Year

Veteran Married to Veteran      $2,400.00 Per Month or $28,800.00 Per Year

Once Awarded Aid and Attendance or Housebound Status, a Veteran May Obtain Free Medications, Medical Equipment, Incontinence Supplies, Glasses, and Hearing Aides from the VA Hospital/Clinic via U.S. Mail Without Going to the VA Clinic or Hospital.  A Separate Application Must be Made Through the Health Care System.

**Note:  Each VA Claim is Unique and the Above Criteria is Generic in Nature and May Not be Applicable to Each Claimant.

What’s an Elder Law Attorney Able to Do for Me?

Wednesday, July 7th, 2010

Resources for Adult Care-providing Children of Senior

Elder Law encompasses many different fields of law which is important to note because the legal problems that affect the elderly are continuously growing in number. Current laws and regulations are also becoming more complex and therefore more challenging for you the adult child of the senior. Attorneys that specialize in dealing with the elderly must have a broad understanding of the laws that impact a given situation to avoid future problems for the senior and their heirs.

Areas of Elder Law Include:

  • Preservation/transfer of assets seeking to avoid spousal impoverishment when a spouse enters a nursing home
  • Medicaid
  • Medicare claims and appeals
  • Social security and disability claims and appeals
  • Supplemental and long term health insurance issues.
  • Disability planning, including use of durable powers of attorney, living trusts, “living wills,” for financial management and health care decisions, and other means of delegating management and decision-making to another in case of incompetency or incapacity.
  • Conservatorships and guardianships
  • Estate planning, including planning for the management of one’s estate during life and its disposition on death through the use of trusts, wills and other planning documents
  • Probate
  • Administration and management of trusts and estates
  • Long-term care placements in nursing home and life care communities
  • Nursing home issues including questions of patients’ rights and nursing home quality
  • Elder abuse and fraud recovery cases
  • Housing issues, including discrimination and home equity conversions
  • Age discrimination in employment
  • Retirement, including public and private retirement benefits, survivor benefits and pension benefits
  • Health law
  • Mental health law

As with any specialty attorney, most Elder Law attorneys do not specialize in every one of these areas. So when an attorney says he/she practices Elder Law, find out which of these matters he/she handles and has years of expertise doing. Remember to hire the attorney who regularly handles matters in the area of concern in your particular case. He/she should also know enough about the other fields related to your issue to question whether the action being taken might be affected by laws in any of the other areas of law on the list. For example, if you are going to rewrite your estate plan and your spouse is ill, the estate planner needs to know enough about Medi-Cal to know whether it is an issue with regard to your spouse’s inheritance and legal rights after the spouses passing.

Attorneys who are members of NAELA, the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys, are focused on continual education in the many areas that elder law touches; so you should ask your elder law attorney if they are affiliated with NAELA. Attorneys who primarily work with the elderly bring more to their practice than an expertise in the appropriate area of law. They bring a long standing knowledge of senior’s needs and that allows them and their staff to empathize with some of the challenging physical and mental difficulties that often accompany the aging process. Any high quality elder law attorney will understand the afflictions of the aged and can therefore offer advice that can more easily determine the best course of action for the client. They are more aware of real life problems, health and otherwise, that tend to overtake us as we age. Elder law attorneys are also usually tied into a system of social workers, psychologists, caregivers and other elder care professionals who may be of assistance to you. All of these things will hopefully make you more comfortable when dealing with them and ease your way as you try to resolve your legal problem.

Eviction at 93: When Medicaid (Medi-Cal for California) Runs Out

Tuesday, June 29th, 2010

Planning for the unexpected in our elder years had gotten decidedly more complex over recent years. And even when you save and plan, what happens when part of your plan gets cut out right from under you? For example, relying on Medicaid (here in California its Medi-Cal) to support your long-term care living situation. Unfortunately, that is exactly what happened to 6 senior residents of assisted-living centers along the Gulf Coast. As reported by the Peninsula Daily News, by the end of June 2010, two assisted-living facilities will have evicted six of their elderly residents because they are on Medicaid and the facilities’ Medicaid contract is not going to be renewed due to underpayment of the actual cost of care. These are seniors that saved for retirement, invested wisely and had long term care coverage- or so they thought.

Edith Bateman, 93, left, and Lucile Cole, 98, are among the residents evicted from Prairie Springs, a Sequim assisted living facility that will end its Medicaid contract as of June 30. -- Photo by Diane Urbani de la Paz/Peninsula Daily News

According to the facilities’ CEO it costs the facility more to take care of people than what Medicaid pays so they are simply not continuing with their Medicaid contracts. The state Legislature passed a law in 2008 prohibiting the eviction of residents with Medicaid but if a facility has no Medicaid contract they aren’t subject to that state requirement. A convenient loop hole if you’re in the long term care business.

So what are you other options? Let’s look at long term care insurance instead of Medi-Cal. Today, the cost of a nursing home, according to AARP, is about $62K a year nationwide and the average patient stays for 2.4 years- that’s a total cost of around $148,000. Long term care policies are all over the place but for argument’s sake, say you get a standard policy for a 55-year old man that would pay out up to 131,400. That’s almost enough for 2.4 years in a facility. That policy would cost around $16,113 over a 30 year period. Unfortunately, the basic policy doesn’t meet or cover all of your needs and since we are living longer and longer because of medical breakthroughs chances are you will need more extensive coverage.

This means you would need a more expensive policy, somewhere in the $200-300/month range to really cover those expenses. And to even start using your benefits you need to satisfy the policy requirements like needing help with daily living, ie: bathing, dressing or eating. Also premiums rise over time, on average about 5% per year, and the total benefit might still fall short of the continuing rising cost of long term care by the time you need it.

These are the unfortunate circumstances of living today. This is why Life Care Planning is so important- so that you can map out not only your savings and emergency plan but for the unexpected long-term needs of yourself or your older loved ones down the line. Evaluate your need for a long term care insurance policy with the following guidelines in mind.

Who Should Consider a LTC Policy?

  • Those we want some flexibility in choosing the type of long-term care they receive.
  • People who can afford current and future (inflated) premiums
  • People who has significant income and other assets and don’t want to run through them all if long-term care is needed
  • Anyone who doesn’t want to rely on family/friends for financial support

The sad truth is people are consistently outliving their savings, or losing large portions of their investment holdings before it can be used for long-term health care expenses. Even seniors who counted on pensions, investments and Social Security can be caught in a situation like the 6 evicted seniors in the Gulf Coast. Planning for the worst is never a bad idea in today’s economy. Even smarter is planning with an attorney who has seen this situation time and again and can guide you on how to avoid it.

Depression and the Elderly

Wednesday, June 23rd, 2010

There are many challenges for adult children caring for aging parents and grandparents. Among these are the threats of depression which hits more elder persons than you might think. In fact, as many as 70% of institutionalized elderly experience significant depression, and the incidence in community settings is approximately 18% in the over 65 population (as opposed to 8% in the general population). Some estimates of frail elderly living in independent settings have found a 30% or higher incidence. Depression is a medical condition that affects not only quality of life, but also the way in which people take care of themselves. It is a condition that is usually easily resolved with new treatments like therapy, antidepressants or a change in living accommodations, but untreated in the elderly, it can have terrible consequences.

Loss is painful—whether an elder is dealing with a loss of independence, mobility, health, a long-time career, or someone they love. Grieving over these losses is normal, even if the feelings of sadness last for weeks or months. Losing all hope and joy, however, is not normal. It’s depression.

According to the National Institutes of Health, of the 35 million Americans age 65 or older, about 2 million suffer from full-blown depression. Another 5 million suffer from less severe forms of the illness.

Causes of Depression

Many seniors face significant life changes and stressors that put them at risk for depression. Those at the highest risk include older adults with a personal or family history of depression, failing health, substance abuse problems, or inadequate social or emotional support.

Causes and risk factors that contribute include:

  • Loneliness and isolation – Living alone; a dwindling social circle due to deaths or relocation; decreased mobility due to illness or loss of driving privileges.
  • Reduced sense of purpose – Feelings of purposelessness or loss of identity due to retirement or physical limitations on activities.
  • Health problems – Illness and disability; chronic or severe pain; cognitive decline; damage to body image due to surgery or disease.
  • Medications – Many prescription medications can trigger or exacerbate depression.
  • Fears – Fear of death or dying; anxiety over financial problems or health issues.
  • Recent bereavement – The death of friends, family members, and pets; the loss of a spouse or partner.

Signs and Symptoms

  • Sadness
  • Fatigue
  • Abandoning or losing interest in hobbies or other pleasurable pastimes
  • Social withdrawal and isolation (reluctance to be with friends, engage in activities, or leave home)
  • Weight loss; loss of appetite
  • Sleep disturbances (difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep, oversleeping, or daytime sleepiness)
  • Loss of self-worth (worries about being a burden, feelings of worthlessness, self-loathing)
  • Increased use of alcohol or other drugs
  • Fixation on death; suicidal thoughts or attempts

Older adults don’t always fit the typical picture of depression. Many depressed seniors don’t claim to feel sad at all. They may complain, instead, of low motivation, a lack of energy, or physical problems. In fact, physical complaints, such as arthritis pain or headaches that have gotten worse, are often the predominant symptom of depression in the elderly. Older adults with depression are also more likely to show symptoms of anxiety or irritability. They may constantly wring their hands, pace around the room, or fret obsessively about money, their health, or the state of the world.

Older adults who deny feeling sad or depressed may still have major depression. Here are the clues to look for:

  • Unexplained or aggravated aches and pains
  • Hopelessness
  • Helplessness
  • Anxiety and worries
  • Memory problems
  • Loss of feeling of pleasure
  • Slowed movement
  • Irritability
  • Lack of interest in personal care (skipping meals, forgetting medications, neglecting personal hygiene)

Adapted from American Academy of Family Physicians

Other tips for helping a depressed parent or grandparent:

  • Invite them out. Depression is less likely when people’s bodies and minds remain active. Suggest activities to do together that your loved one used to enjoy: walks, an art class, a trip to the museum or the movies—anything that provides mental or physical stimulation.

Schedule regular social activities. Group outings, visits from friends and family members, or trips to the local senior or community center can help combat isolation and